Meet Women
You know, men ask me questions about " understanding women " and "how to attract women " and equivalent things frequently .
But definitely the best answer for all of these sort of questions is "experience."
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to attract women?"
You get experience any way you can. Go anywhere there are lots of women and just practice. Don't worry if you are efficient. Just practice and get the experience yourself. Eventually you will learn on your own and you will start getting dates. Yes that's right - no matter how undesirable, dumb, poor or old you are. If you just practice you will start getting dates.
And when you start getting dates. Then date, date, date, date, date!
It is often known as "multi" or serial dating.
I guess I should elucidate. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a spouse.
And I am not talking about anyone who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and ongoing interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
They said: "Don't get very serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
It may seem immature, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.
Most of us adults never actually followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and connected with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
Unfortunately, there is a significant difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people commonly continue this trend of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the last analysis it leads to depression in relationships, and a failure to have an understanding of the opposite sex.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us.
Most of us didn't even examine our own character and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.
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