Bad Boy Compared To Nice Boy - Does Interest Have Something To Do With Being A Bad Boy Versus A Nice Guy?
Well, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is essentially true. At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.
I believe there are other personality factors involved that perhaps bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.
Bad boys usually are less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the point that a guy is bad.
I personally almost never use the "bad boy" technique when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy guy to hook and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how lovely they are, and most women don't have any idea as to whether I am fascinated with them or just being good.
That is what sets me apart from a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I love them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.
Girls like guys who are appealing and unique. Attractive girls don't find boys who tell them how beautiful they are to be special. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without mentioning a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both appealing and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also remember that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking female may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how beautiful she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a community of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little nasty and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but arrogant and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to determine who that someone would be and then try to expand how you would meet persons like that. So regardless of if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and different to the women you encounter and you will be victorious.
One of the hardest things to learn in life is that regardless of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly suitable to you. Even if you are dull there are women who are perfectly compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the gathering.
The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't appeal to anyone. Now if you just believe in yourself for who you are and act the way you actually are, you will realize that there are people who will accept you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will get a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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